He asked you, now you get to ask them....! I bet you could not imagine your wedding day without your best friends, or lots of little helpers to make your wedding day the best ever.

Asking your possie to be involved in your wedding is so exiting, it is always best to give a lot of advanced warning so they can set your date aside, aroung 8 months should be enough warning, for people to sort thenselves out....Most people wait a little while between your fella's proposal and asking their bridal possie to help, as there is a lot to think about, but don’t wait too long though your besties are probably anxiously awaiting you to ask them.

We have some ways that can help you ask them in sometimes fun and unique ways, this will make your bridesmaids, flowergirls, maid of honour ext feel just that little more special and that much more excited for your wedding. Your proposal should also reflect your personality as well as the personality you want for your wedding. Here are a few great ways of popping the question.

The Bridesmaid Box

So this one is common, but the contents of the box can be as unique as you choose. Stock a wooden or decorative box with your girl’s favorite candies, wine, pictures of the two of you, and even a color swatch of what her dress color will be. If you really want to make it special, include a special note that has the question. This way you can personalize the box and “accidentally” make her cry.

Bottle Bag

Next time the two of you are hanging out, sugest you have a litle drink of your favourate, just get the bottle out with the bag and ask her to do the honours. After the initial exitment, you get to have a drink and talk more about your plans.

Jigsaw Puzzle

This has got to be the biggest surprise, but you have to make thm work for it, This can either be sent through the post, or you can give them it in person, after the groaning and complaining and general puzzlement as to why you have asked them to make this daft thing, dont forget to have a camera ready to capture the moment they pice togather enough to realise the question. And you’ll already have a quality picture to laugh about afterward.

Literally Pop the Question

If you know where she parks, write a proposal note with the question and stuff it in a balloon. Write “pop me” on the balloon and tie it to her car handle or antenna. Just make sure you don’t do this on a weekend she’ll be out of town, or all she’ll get is a deflated balloon and confusion.

Pack a Surprise

Write a sweet note and attach it to her favorite candy bar. When she isn’t looking, slip it in her bag or purse. Write something along the lines of “it’d be SWEET if you were one of my bridesmaids”. Text her when she’s at work or school and tell her you packed a treat in her bag and she should look for it. Surprise!

Proposal Party

If you want to propose to everyone at once, have a casual party at your house or a local park (or wherever you choose). Make special little cupcakes and snacks and have everyone’s note that “asks” them laid out on a table. When everyone gets there, ask them to read the notes and there you go! And then you can answer (and celebrate with!) everyone at the same time. If planning a whole party seems too daunting, just ask everyone out to lunch one day at your fave restaurant and ask!

As the wedding approaches, don't forget to let your bridal party know how much you appreciate their support with a small wedding party gift.